A heated argument going on around the topic on getting back with your ex. Lots of people would agree that the best thing is to move on, but we also hear lots of astounding stories of exes who come back together again, even after many, many years being apart. So, what when you know that your ex is the one? How to get him or her back?
Few days ago I stumbled upon a guide to getting an ex back – written especially for men. It is written by the guy who is now getting married with his ex. So, I guess it really works.
So, how to start?
Getting Back With Your Ex
1. Figuring out the reason of your breakup.
Sit down and carefully analyze the reason for your breakup. Not the trigger because that is just a small thing, but the real reason. Figuring this out can be really hard. You argued a lot? Ok, you argued a lot, but why? What was the cause of your arguments? You were insecure? She was insecure? Was one of you jealous? Did you take her for granted?
Find out the real reason of your breakup to know is it worth it to try again.
2. Talk honestly with your ex.
Don’t blame her or him for anything. Don’t expect anything. Just tell your ex honestly that you would like to give it another try and explain why do you think it’s possible. Explain to your ex what changed with you, why would it work this time.
3. Yes or no.
Don’t beg or manipulate your ex. If they say no, there’s nothing you can do. You can turn that “no” into a “yes”. If they agree to try again, then you have to do all you can to make it work this time.
P.S. Make sure to read the guide I mentioned, it will guide you step by step in your ‘getting my ex back’ process.